Slayin’ the Self-Love Game: 3 Ways to Boost Confidence and Kick Insecurities to the Curb

Hey there, Jewels! Get ready to slay the self-love game and embrace your FLAWSOME self, because we're about to celebrate the beautiful tapestry of your uniqueness. Today, we're diving deep into the art of self-acceptance, self-expression, and self-celebration (YASS!) . So grab your crown, adjust your attitude to fierce, and let's get real about boosting that confidence and kicking those insecurities to the curb. Momma Iyanla would be proud!


  1. Celebrate Your Quirks: Embracing the Beautiful Tapestry of Your Uniqueness

Listen up, fam! I know I have quirks and NOW THAT I’M 40….I am embracing the fact that I am a walking masterpiece of quirks and idiosyncrasies! I AM one-of-a-kind. And I’m telling you, it is time to throw a bash and pop some champagne for those quirks that set you apart! Whether it's your snort-like laughter that makes people snort-laugh along (I’m definitely going to snort with you!), your obsession with collecting the most random things that even Marie Kondo would question, or your talent for twerkin’ any place at any time like nobody's business, these quirks make you special. Embrace them like a boss, because they add more flavor and spice to your life than a secret family recipe. Remember, it's this is what makes you extraordinary, and honey, extraordinary is where the sauce is at!

Glass of Champagne being poured over the rim. Woman holding the glass wearing a sparkle sleeve.


  1. Unleash Your Inner Style Icon: Dressing to Express Your Authentic Self

Alright, fashionistas, gather around! Fashion isn't just about following trends and blending in with the crowd. It's your chance to unleash your inner style icon and serve looks that scream, "I'm here, I'm fabulous, and I'm slaying!" Get ready to turn heads, break necks, and steal the spotlight by dressing to express your authentic self. Whether you're rocking a neon jumpsuit that could blind the haters, vintage classics that make your grandma say, "Dang, I wish I kept that," or a mashup of eclectic pieces that defy all fashion norms, own your style and wear it like a statement. When you strut your stuff with confidence, you radiate more power than a thousand Lizzo anthems and leave a lasting impression that'll have people asking for your autograph. Werk it, queen!


  1. Let Your Light Shine: Embracing Your Passions and Talents

Alright, shining stars, it's time to tap into that inner greatness that's been simmering inside you like a pot of gumbo (girl, I’m hungry). Embrace your passions and talents, because baby, you were born to shine bright like a diamond. Dive headfirst into activities that set your soul on fire, whether it's painting like Basquiat, singing like Beyoncé, writing like Maya Angelou, or twerking like nobody's watching (cause we already addressed this in #1). Embrace your unique talents and let them shine like a supernova on a summer night. Share your gifts with the world and watch as your light inspires others to ignite their own spark. Remember, when you let your light shine, you become a trailblazer that leads others out of the darkness and into their own fabulous light! So shine on, you radiant gem, you!

Jewel, you are a masterpiece, flawlessly imperfect and unapologetically fierce.  So step into your power, embrace those quirks like they're the key to your kingdom, slay your style with all the confidence of a boss lady, and let your light illuminate the world like a disco ball on the dance floor. Remember, you were not meant to blend in, but to stand out and shine. So keep embracing your FLAWSOME fabulosity, inspiring others along the way, and living your best life with unapologetic swagger. You are a force to be reckoned with, and the world is your runway. Never forget that you are absolutely, undeniably, and flawlessly fabulous!

   Crowns up-

                           MaKesha